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Love vs Lust

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Love is something that everyone longs for. People long for it so much that they can confuse the love for lust. Some even get married because they think they love the person, but the whole time it was just lust.

Love is unconditional and even when you have challenges in a relationship or when one the other party’s energy is just off, the one thing that is able to bring you guys back together after a little space is love.

Lust on the other hand is conditional and can also be a really strong likeness for a person or strong attraction to a person, but only for conditional reasonings. So there’s never any real connection outside of that, which means when challenges come the relationship is most likely over.

Check out the video above for the full break down on how to differ the two.


  • Shauntay Dunbar

    Shauntay Dunbar is an author, dating expert and entrepreneur from the Bronx, NY. She published her first book in 2017 titled Diving in Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now! Diving in Stilettos picks up where her marriage left off. Single again, in New York City in her 30s during the age of online dating and social media. During the writing process she learned a lot about herself, calling it therapeutic. She also realized that she wasn’t the only one that could benefit from these lessons learned, so she wrote a book. Readers connect with Shauntay and her journey because they either know a Shaunie or see themselves in her stilettos. She continues to share her experiences while spreading her message of self-love via social media on her Instagram Live Show Her View every Tuesday @ 9pm ET. Dating Tip Tuesday and Ask Shaunie will give insight and a good laugh. Her blog “Tales from the Single Relationship Expert is enlightening and informative. Shauntay has teamed up with brands like Estee Lauder, Lord & Taylor, Shea Moisture, Essence Festival to host event and speaking engagements across the country. Her first book was voted favorite read of 2018 by Epifiana Magazine, she was the feature author at the Women In Media (WIM) Philly Conference and spoke at Mercy College February 2020. Shauntay has done guest appearances on television and podcasts engaging in healthy conversations about love, life, dating, divorce and self-awareness. She is currently working on book #2, all while maintaining a day job as an event planner for a luxury publisher in New York City. Collaborating with other social media influencers and lifestyle experts to create online content and special events to empower women has become her passion.

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