Ladies Won’t Date Men Who Are On a Budget: Where’s the Truth?

We know that most women, love men who are mature and are stable within their career and finances, at least if they are looking to settle down and start a family of their own. There was a very interesting video that Anthony O’Neal posted via Instagram about how he is dating fora purpose and is also a budget, but because of this some women for whatever reason are turned off. So why is that a budget turns most women off?

When a man is on a budget, it does not mean he is broke. Let me say this again, just because a man is on a budget doesn’t not mean he is broke. Just because he may choose to take you to Outback for steak and lobster overLowery’s or some other fancy and highly expensive steak restaurant doesn’t necessarily mean he’s broke.

As women, we need to really take the time to value or men and not what we want them to bring to the table. Take time to actually ask him what his long term goals are. Does he prefer homeownership or is he okay with renting forever? Is he set up for retirement? If he doesn’t plan to stay at his current job, does he have a plan to get to where he wants to be at in his career? If he has a great career, is he truly passionate about what he is doing?

Those questions will help you to get to know the man that you are involved with better. It will also let him know and or see if you are truly into him for him or if you’re just dating him to go places and to just be with someone because you don’t want to be single.

Once women can move past the whole money thing, it will allow dating to move smoothly and people’s time won’t be wasted. You can’t grow with someone if you don’t value who they are as a person first. Most men who are on a budget, most likely is working on getting to that next point in his life and he knows that he can’t just throw his money away at things that don’t matter, such as fancy dinners just because.

If you have yet to watch the video, please watch it.

 


ABOUT AUTHOR

  • Naomi K. Bonman

    Naomi K. Bonman is a graduate of Clark Atlanta University where she holds her Bachelors of Arts in Mass Media Arts with a concentration in Journalism. She also holds her Masters of Public Administration. She is the Founder and CEO of Awakened Media Enterprises, Inc. which owns Purposely Awakened. She has been in the media field since 2006 covering beats that range from social justice, community, entertainment, sports, fashion/beauty, and culture news.

Naomi K. Bonman

Naomi K. Bonman is a graduate of Clark Atlanta University where she holds her Bachelors of Arts in Mass Media Arts with a concentration in Journalism. She also holds her Masters of Public Administration. She is the Founder and CEO of Awakened Media Enterprises, Inc. which owns Purposely Awakened. She has been in the media field since 2006 covering beats that range from social justice, community, entertainment, sports, fashion/beauty, and culture news.

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